Author: Joshua Gudnayber

  • The Dignity of Women and the Vital Role of Men as Defenders

    The Dignity of Women and the Vital Role of Men as Defenders

    In every society, the dignity of women is a cornerstone of justice, harmony, and true human flourishing. A woman’s dignity is not something granted by others but is inherent—rooted in her very nature as a human being. She is not defined by what she does or what others perceive her to be; she possesses an innate worth that must be acknowledged, respected, and fiercely protected.

    Throughout history, women have been the backbone of families, communities, and cultures. They nurture life—both physically and spiritually—bringing compassion, wisdom, and strength into the world. However, despite their essential role, the dignity of women has often been undermined by systems, cultures, and individuals that devalue or objectify them. This injustice is not only a betrayal of women—it is a failure of society at large.

    In this context, the role of men becomes critically important. Men are called to be more than bystanders; they are called to be defenders—champions—of women’s dignity. This is not about patronizing protection or outdated gender roles, but about responsibility, integrity, and mutual respect.

    To defend a woman’s dignity means to affirm her worth in both word and action. It means rejecting all forms of violence, exploitation, and objectification. It means standing against the normalization of disrespect—whether in conversation, media, or culture. It means honoring her voice, her choices, and her presence.

    Men, especially, must challenge the toxic models of masculinity that equate power with domination or strength with silence. True strength lies in the ability to protect, to listen, and to uplift. It lies in creating spaces where women feel safe, seen, and valued—not just tolerated or used. Men must be the ones to speak out against injustice, even when it is uncomfortable, especially when silence would be easier.

    Moreover, men must also recognize that their role as defenders begins at home. How a man treats his mother, his sister, his wife, or his daughter shapes the way he will treat all women—and teaches others to do the same. Young boys must grow up seeing that to be a man is to respect women not for what they can offer, but for who they are.

    Ultimately, defending the dignity of women is not a task for men alone—it is a shared human responsibility. But when men embrace their role as defenders, they contribute to a world where women are free to flourish, to lead, and to thrive with the dignity that has always been theirs.

    And in doing so, both men and women are elevated—because when we honor the dignity of one, we strengthen the humanity of all.


    *AI written article using ChatGPT. Though it lacks a personal touch its output was insightful. Maybe it takes writing from a non-human to help us find our humanity (you can’t see the forest from the trees).

  • Pearls of Wisdom

    Pearls of Wisdom

    An oyster grows a pearl over time. What started as an irritant, a piece of sand that got into its mouth forms into this beautiful jewel.

    What if the oyster had spit it out, it would just be another grain of sand at the at the bottom of the ocean.

    We sometimes do this to people, if they are irritating then we spit them out. We treat them as common and discard them, leaving them to believe they are just another piece of sand.

    You have the ability to form pearls too. When someone is irritating you, you have a choice. Will you spit them out or will you keep them close and allow them to become a pearl. Pearls are rare only because there are too many grains of sand that have not been giving the chance to realize their potential.

  • Leading us Out of the Desert

    Leading us Out of the Desert

    Reflecting on Pope Francis passing, it really is miraculous his passing on Easter Monday. Lent, the 40 days before Easter is like the Israelites 40 years in the desert (trials of life) before they could enter the promise land (heaven). Jesus resurrection is leading us out of the desert and into paradise. Pope Francis is a modern example to follow, journeying through the desert of life, following Christ and on Easter he is redeemed and enters into heaven.

    When he became Pope, the world did not know anything about him but his choice in names was very telling of his mission. The name means, “freeman” and Saint Francis was a saint who made himself so much like Christ he received his wounds. God asked Francis to” rebuild his church.” He focused on the poor and marginalized. His prayer is one of my favorites:

    Lord, make me an instrument of your peace:
    where there is hatred, let me sow love;
    where there is injury, pardon;
    where there is doubt, faith;
    where there is despair, hope;
    where there is darkness, light;
    where there is sadness, joy. 

    O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console,
    to be understood as to understand,
    to be loved as to love.
    For it is in giving that we receive, 
    it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, 
    and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
    Amen.

    This prayer is a mindset Pope Francis embraced. Putting others above yourself and lifting them up so that we all Rise with Christ.

    In the United States we are so divided, let us learn from one of his last meetings. On Easter Pope Francis met with Vice President Vance. Pope Francis has been critical about our current immigration policies and as a defender of the marginalized would make VP Vance his enemy. On the biggest day of the year for the Pope he took the time to welcome him and gave his children Chocolate eggs. He loves his enemy.

    The world will miss his sense of mercy and enormous heart. We should all strive to love like Pope Francis. Love sets us free. Let us pray we can learn to love our enemies like this, our neighbors as our selves, and strive for peace by following his lead.